Free ‘Discovery Quiz’: Learn WHY Your Loving Words Secretly Shut Down Men’s Feelings– And the Surprising Words That Spark a Man’s Passion
The truth is, even when a woman convinces herself that she’s not thinking about love, or not trying to be attractive, she is, consciously or unconsciously, doing countless little things to catch attract men’s attention, or to drive men away, or, quite often, both.
And because most women don’t give themselves permission to really think about the specifics of how they communicate and relate to men, they wind up attracting men by default… men who dissatisfy them. Or, for that matter, they wind up losing the men they want the same way they met them… unconsciously, and by default.
Sometimes, doing things unconsciously doesn’t mean that you’re doing them in an inspired way, and according to what Fate wants… sometimes, it just means that you’re doing them, well, unconsciously. That is, without awareness, without sensitivity, without curiosity; that, in fact, you’re doing stuff, without a clue as to what you’re doing… even, and especially, if you find yourself doing these things time and time again.
This practice women are taught, of not giving themselves permission to really understand the specifics of how they relate to men, is part of something larger: The Patience Model. The Patience Model is the idea that a woman has to wait for some man to choose her… and that it’s wrong for a woman to secretly choose who she wants, and then subtly lead him into chasing eagerly after her.
The Patience Model tends to leave you with a very… Read more…